Memorable Journey – An Indian Wedding in Thailand

April 23, 2019mayurisjikoni
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To all my readers, thank you so much for the encouraging and positive comments for my first travel post. I must admit that Thailand was not on our bucket list as such. Last year we transited Bangkok while going to Bali. The orchids at the airport did impress me but after that didn’t give it much thought.

My niece, my sister’s daughter announces her engagement and subsequently her wedding. Jumped for joy as she wanted to get married in Thailand. Why she chose Thailand and they are both from UK is another story which I wouldn’t go into details.

8th April is when packed our bags and moved out of Manathai Khao Lak to go to JW Marriot Khao Lak which was a drive of about 15 minutes. This hotel is so much bigger than Manathai but lacked the lush greenery we had got accustomed to at Manathai. We arrived just before 11a.m. and being such a busy hotel, our room was not ready.

A special reception desk for the K&S wedding guests was set up in the large lobby. We were welcomed with a garland of orchids and white tiny flowers. In Thai they are called malai chum rui, which is a small garland given to people as a souvenir or to welcome them. We were given a welcome somewhat extra sweetish drink and a cold towel. Those ice cold towels are such a boon in the hot humid weather.

view of the resort from the lobby

Phuang Malai is the Thai word for a flower garland. Malai meaning flower and phuang meaning binding together. Malai chai deaw is usually garlands that are used as an offering to show respect like in temples. Malai song chai garlands are put around the neck of an important person like a dignitary and used by the bride and groom during a wedding.

patriarch of the family honored with a malai chum rui

We were told to wait for our room so we headed to meet our family. My brother had a pool access room so naturally most of my family was there.

photo courtesy: Krishna

Hugs and excitement, meeting and greeting and soon it was time for lunch at the Ta-Krai Restaurant.

Was I glad to see some Indian food. Had a bit of vegetable curry and roti, salads, some veggie tempura and then we headed for the wide variety of desserts.

a huge selection of fresh fruits and desserts

Chatting and meeting extended families, we were around the lunch area for over an hour.

what an wonderful way to enjoy coconut ice cream and mango

Exotic view from Ta-Krai Restaurant

Finally we got our room at 4.30 p.m. It took a while for our luggage to get to the room. Such a luxurious room and a lovely cute basket of snacks and drinks awaited us from the bride and groom. We were glad to be in an air conditioned room after spending over 4 hours in the hot and humid air.

Room Card Keys were enclosed in customized wallets

After that it was kind of a rush for hubby and me to unpack, shower, iron clothes for the first event, dry my hair, get ready for the Party in Paradise.

We got a bit late and I was not happy as we missed the meet and greet event. What I couldn’t understand is that if we had booked our room months ago and knowing that we were wedding guests why weren’t our rooms ready in time? Headed to the Waterfront Main which was a long walk for us and hubby lost the map, so it was a finding game.

photo courtesy Toral

All the frustration immediately evaporated when I saw how radiant my niece looked, seeing family all under one roof and lets not forget about the   huge variety of food. I’ve never seen so much food at a wedding event. Pani puris, dosa, pita bread with dips, Indian curries and naan and so much more. I didn’t even bother to see what variety was available for the non vegetarians.

Krishna and me

isn’t the table centre beautiful? 

Dessert was served on the table, and seriously I didn’t want to spoil the chic arrangement. It was like should I have all of them? Which one should I choose? 6 of each so there was one each for everyone.

The night culminated in a dance performance by my niece’s cousins and friends. Then began the long night of dancing and merriment.

9th April

Next day we all got ready, had breakfast. You could choose from cereals, to eggs, breads, salads and hot Indian parathas or bateta poha (beaten rice with potatoes). Some of the pre wedding ceremonies were carried out back home so the morning event was the most fun and short ceremony of haldi or peethi. Traditionally, it is said that the sister in laws of the bride would go to the pond or well to fetch water for the bride to be to have a bath. A mixture of turmeric, rose essence, honey, sandalwood, would be mixed and applied on the bride to be’s whole body. The same ceremony is also carried out for the groom to be. This is done so that for the wedding day the couple would be appear radiant with a healthy glowing skin.

After the haldi ceremony everyone rushed back to their rooms to get ready for the afternoon wedding. The wedding mandap was erected facing the sea. It looked so beautiful but it was just too hot for us to pretend that in our silk saris the humidity did not bother us.

What is a mandap? Well, its a temporary  four poster structure with a canopy and open on all four sides. Traditionally, they were made of wood but these days other kinds of materials are used. Read more about the importance of a mandap here.

Just as the wedding ceremony got over, dark clouds loomed above and it began to drizzle a bit. In a way it was a relief to get into the air conditioned restaurant where we had cold drinks, tea, snacks. As soon as the clouds disappeared, we were called out to get ready to congratulate K&S and also to take a photo. As soon as our turn was over, hubby and I rushed to the room to take a quick shower and put on some more comfortable clothes.

I’m glad we did that as the Sunset Dinner was out on the Olive Lawn and again it had become very humid.

A huge variety of food to choose from. I loved the way the papaya salad and the raw mango salads were prepared, without any fish sauce. By this mealtime, I didn’t want to have any desserts but my sister’s brother in law insisted that we try the kulfi. Glad I did as it was sprinkled with a tiny amount of salt which gave it an interesting taste. After dinner there was entertainment by the fire performers.

10th April

Everyone decided to retire early as next day was an early start. We had to be in the lobby by 6.30a.m all ready to go to the Gurdwara Sahib for the Sikh Wedding(Anand Karaj). A bus ride from Marriot to the Gurdwara Sahib in Phuket Town took us about 1.30 hours. We had packed breakfast. A choice of banana, apple, croissant, juice, yogurt, paratha. I love attending a Sikh wedding, short and so meaningful.

As soon as we reach the Gurdwara we are greeted by the priest and the Milni ceremony took place. This ceremony is where men from the baraat (groom’s side) are welcomed by the men on the bride’s side with a garland and hug.

The Anand Karaj was performed in the prayer hall upstairs.

K&S sat side by side in front of the Guru Granth Sahib(Holy Book). The ceremony started with the couple and their parents standing up to offer Ardaas to ‘Waheguru’, after which singing of Shabads or hymns was done. The priest explained to the couple the significance of the marriage, the duties that each need to perform within the sacred relationship, and the general idea of leading a pious life according to Sikh tenets. The couple then bowed down before the Guru Granth Sahib. The father of the bride placed a saffron colored scarf on the groom’s shoulder and the other end of the same on his daughter’s hand. This signified that they are joined and ready to take the lavaas or vows.

The priest recited the four Lavaa or stanzas from the Guru Granth Sahib. After he completed reading the first stanza, the couple got up and slowly walked around the Guru Granth Sahib in clockwise direction, with the groom leading the bride.The brothers of the bride stood on the side to guide the sister.  After completion of the round they came back to their positions but remain standing for the remaining three hymns. The process of circumambulation was repeated three more times after each Lavaa. The raagis sang the Lavaas in the background while the couple performed the Pheras.

After the pheras, the raagis or singers sang melodious hymns of Anand Sahib.An Ardaas was offered as an indication that the wedding ceremony is now complete. A random Hymn from the Guru Granth Sahib was chosen to be recited while Khatah Prasad is distributed among all the attendees. The prasad is usually a sweet halwa made from wheat flour and its ever so tasty.

After the ceremony we all had lunch of dal, roti, sabji, rice and gulab jamun.

The afternoon was for relaxation. It gave us the opportunity to use the pool, laze around and chit chat. Marriot Khao Lak has two main types of rooms, pool facing or garden facing. Then they have family room and villas. Its a huge hotel with 5 restaurants and several bars around the pools.

The evening culminated into a Wedding Reception held at the Grand Ballroom. Food was served at the table and we all loved the crispy bhindi which was served as a starter. Will have to get Chef Mohan to share the recipe with me. He was in charge of making sure that the wedding guests were well fed. I must say he did an excellent job.

soothing melodious Thai music before the party begins. Man playing a khim.

Photo prop – wall of flowers

And finally ……

time to relax after all the leg shaking 🙂

Overall, an exotic, romantic venue for a wedding. Good service and friendly staff. What else does one need for a prefect wedding.



  • simplysensationalfood

    April 23, 2019 at 11:02 am

    What a fab experience, it all looks so beautiful. I love destination weddings.

    1. mayurisjikoni

      April 23, 2019 at 11:07 am

      Thank you so much Nayna.

  • Mina Joshi (@GiveMeSomeSpice)

    April 23, 2019 at 4:07 pm

    Loved reading your experience of attending a family wedding in a Thai hotel. All the arrangements look amazing. You look very glamorous.

    1. mayurisjikoni

      April 25, 2019 at 1:08 pm

      Thank you so much Mina for reading the post and the wonderful comment.

  • Snehal

    April 28, 2019 at 7:43 pm

    Super summation of a fantastic wedding.

    1. mayurisjikoni

      April 28, 2019 at 8:44 pm

      Thank you so much.

  • Shobha Keshwani

    May 12, 2019 at 12:10 pm

    Loved this post.. beautiful people , beautiful place and a lovely wedding .. the memories are going to be cherishable for all of you… best wishes to the newly weds.

    1. mayurisjikoni

      May 13, 2019 at 9:29 am

      Thank you so much Shobha.

  • chefmireille

    May 12, 2019 at 6:42 pm

    This destination wedding looks like it must have been a beautiful experience with a fusion of both Indian and Thai cultures in the experience!

    1. mayurisjikoni

      May 13, 2019 at 9:29 am

      Thanks Mireille it was a wonderful experience.

  • travelwisesr

    May 18, 2019 at 12:32 pm

    Lovely pics. Great food and most importantly what a beautiful wedding venue. Love everything about this post. And you look so happy. That’s great again.

    1. mayurisjikoni

      May 19, 2019 at 1:02 pm

      Thank you so much. You know how Indian weddings are…good food means a good wedding 🙂

  • Trish

    May 18, 2019 at 1:04 pm

    What a beautiful setting for a wedding. It all looks so glamorous and relaxing. I loved the cultural details about the wedding ceremony. Thank you for sharing.

    1. mayurisjikoni

      May 19, 2019 at 1:01 pm

      Thanks Trish and most welcome.

  • Despite Pain

    May 18, 2019 at 1:44 pm

    What a amazing setting for your niece’s wedding. Everything looks perfect. I especially love all the floral decoration. Your niece is a beautiful bride.

    1. mayurisjikoni

      May 19, 2019 at 1:00 pm

      Thank you so much for the kind compliment.

  • sjd68

    May 18, 2019 at 1:52 pm

    We used to travel to the Dominican Republic often and have witnessed many an Indiana wedding there. I love the traditions involved in your cultures wedding ceremony. Your niece looked beautiful. They have the same wedding anniversary as my wife and I. April 9th. I wish them many years of happiness

    1. mayurisjikoni

      May 19, 2019 at 1:00 pm

      Thank you so much Scott and its so nice to know that you share the same wedding date.

  • Joyce

    May 18, 2019 at 8:39 pm

    I’ve read a lot about Thailand and everyone seems to be having a good review about it. It’s one of the placing I have on my backer list.

    1. mayurisjikoni

      May 19, 2019 at 12:57 pm

      Its an amazing place Joyce to visit. My tip is read about places you want to visit as not many locals speak English which becomes difficult to ask them about their culture.

  • Fran Jorgensen

    May 19, 2019 at 12:26 am

    I would love to experience a wedding in Thailand! What a great place to get married! I love the different cultures and to learn how people celebrate in different parts of the world.

    1. mayurisjikoni

      May 19, 2019 at 12:55 pm

      Thanks Fran it definitely was a good experience for my family.

  • VIn

    May 20, 2019 at 3:56 pm

    What an amazing wedding. The destination was beautiful. Congratulations to your niece.

  • Vincent Monaco

    May 20, 2019 at 3:58 pm

    What an amazing place to have a wedding. From the pictures you posted Thailand is beautiful. Congratulations to your niece.

    1. mayurisjikoni

      May 21, 2019 at 5:46 pm

      Thank you so much Vincent, and yes Thailand is a beautiful place.

  • Livelearnbetter (@livelearnbetter)

    May 20, 2019 at 9:54 pm

    I have attended an Indian wedding once, and I must say it’s a great way to celebrate love and culture. From the food to the dance and the atmosphere, I will gladly gate-crash any Indian wedding if possible.

    1. mayurisjikoni

      May 21, 2019 at 5:42 pm

      Don’t know about Indian weddings in western countries but if you were to gate crash one in either India or Kenya, you’d be welcome. The belief is that the more blessings the couple gets the better.

  • Lyosha Varezhkina

    May 21, 2019 at 1:39 am

    It must have been a trip of a life time! so very good! I am happy for you! Combining a happy moment of wedding with a trip is the best!

    1. mayurisjikoni

      May 21, 2019 at 5:41 pm

      It certainly is Lyosha. Next wedding trip coming up soon to Florida. This time my hubby’s niece is getting married.

  • tcleland88

    May 21, 2019 at 2:29 am

    What a beautiful location for a wedding! Your niece looks radiant–I love her dresses. Congratulations to the bride and groom!

    1. mayurisjikoni

      May 21, 2019 at 5:40 pm

      Thank you so much.

  • In The Pastel Bag – by Joanna K

    May 21, 2019 at 8:35 am

    I enjoyed reading how your family follow wedding traditions. I think traditions help us to have a sense of belonging, celebrate each other and create beautiful memories. Wishing the young couple a happy married life.

    1. mayurisjikoni

      May 21, 2019 at 5:36 pm

      Thank you so much and following traditions can be fun too.

  • Erica (The Prepping Wife)

    May 21, 2019 at 10:52 am

    What a beautiful destination wedding to attend! This looks like a very memorable experience, and those are the best kind of events in my opinion. I wish your niece and her husband all the best and many years of happiness together.

    1. mayurisjikoni

      May 21, 2019 at 5:35 pm

      Thank you so much and time with families is always good.

  • Lavern Moore

    May 21, 2019 at 2:02 pm

    Bangkok and Bali sounds like such wonderful destinations. I would love to visit them both someday.

    1. mayurisjikoni

      May 21, 2019 at 5:34 pm

      Hoping your wishes come true as they truly are very wonderful places.

  • Snehal

    May 21, 2019 at 4:08 pm

    I loved the decor! 😍 And lovely photos dear! 🙂 Thanks for sharig a glimpse to your personal life with us. Best wishes for the couple! 🙂

    1. mayurisjikoni

      May 21, 2019 at 5:32 pm

      Thank you so much Snehal.

  • honeybunnytwee

    May 21, 2019 at 4:10 pm

    What a beautiful destination wedding! Thailand is on my travel bucket list and I want to visit there one day to experience the culture.

    1. mayurisjikoni

      May 21, 2019 at 5:32 pm

      Thanks and do visit it one day there is so much to see in Thailand.

  • Nahashon Cyrus

    May 21, 2019 at 10:51 pm

    I have never attended an Indian wedding before, but i hear they are amazing. I hope one of my Indian friends invites me in the near future.

    1. mayurisjikoni

      May 22, 2019 at 6:00 pm

      I’m sure he will, Indian weddings are fun, colorful and lots of music.

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